Useful Tips for Playing Hard To Get
Wednesday, April 22, 2009 5:53Posted in category Dating
Woman playing hard to get in relationships is a very common scenario that men will face. There is something sexy about a woman who plays hard to get. The mystery and the thrill of the hunt come into play when a guy does not know if or when a girl will finally give in to his advances.
Let us now discuss some tactics for playing hard to get.
- For beginners, women should not make themselves too easily achievable. They should make men work for their attention. Guys love a challenge. This will also send them the message that you are not one of those women who can easily be taken.
- Flirt constantly with the guy, but make sure to flirt with other guys in his vicinity. Laugh at his jokes and tell him how cute he looks. Make sure, however, that he sees you touching other guys.
- Every girl should have some mystery about her. This intrigues men, and keep them guessing. On the first date, do not try to win their sympathy by relating to them the dramatic story of your childhood.
- Remember to always be yourself, and have confidence in yourself. Do not try too hard.
- Do not fall for someone who has a girlfriend. That is 100% off limits to you. Unless they broke up, back off.
- Those who are serious about playing hard to get should never make the first move. This is very crucial. Allow men to think that you are offering them the privilege of your presence. They will treat you like a queen.
- Hug and talk to other guys, but do not try to let the one you like know that you like him; that will only cause trouble.
- Observe and keep your distance until you are surer of your footing. It is an important lesson, and one which helps you, as a human being, advance in your ability to create solid relationships.
- Tell one of his friends you are interested in him, but tell another friend you do not want a relationship. This will send him a mixed message, which ultimately makes you look hard to get.
- Go on with your life as usual. Do not leave everything behind at the drop of a hat simply because you have a new man in your life. Continue to spend some time with your friends and family.
- Ask him to hang out, but only when other friends are around. Never ask him to do something alone with you. This will make it seem as if you are interested. Instead, ask him to join you and your friends for a movie or a party.
- Return text messages and emails every other time. Unless it is an urgent email or text, try to only respond half of the time. You want to look busy and only partially interested in him. This way, you appear busy and hard to get.
These are some very useful tips that women should follow in order to play hard to get.
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