My date With Love

Men and women date with each other to find companionship, relation, love, romance and friendship. But dating is very without intentions. It may be out of choice but certain intensions are also involved that forces a man and woman to fall in love each other. Attraction and love is compulsory but there are more essential things involved than just these two.

Never at any time forget that there will be no dating without meeting other people, dating with intent is not about approaching the dating issue with subtle manners, but with devious and aggressive intentions. Various intentions involved in dating are:

1. Friendship
People who are very lonely without family and friends often seek friendship by the way of dating. Friendship is a very pure relation that can transform any one’s heart. A woman and a man can become very good friends. They can date and share the problems that they face in their lives. Through friendship love can also develop after knowing each other properly.

2. Companionship
Every body needs some who they can trust, the one who can take care of them, love them, solve their problems and be by their side when they need someone. Often some people deny that they need some one, but in reality every one needs a soul mate. Spending your whole life alone is very difficult. Having a relationship with someone is an extremely meaningful experience.

3. Sex
There are also some people who just date for sex. This is often a sign of low self esteem or a distorted view of what a healthy relationship is. Lonely people especially women think take it as a way to get intimate with the man they desire. The other realms of closeness, emotional and intellectual, may or not be there. If sex is the only intent, chances are these important elements will not be there.

4. Experience
When we are kids we often think what dating is like. For many teens and young adults dating is a just a way to experience the new phase of life. Hanging out, holding hands, and kissing are so exciting to experience for the first time. A more reserved approach is a wiser way to go with this intention.

5. Marriage
Dating is also a way through to compatible people can meet each other. Some girls dream about the perfect man for them and hope the first ‘true love’ is the one they marry. So, if you are dating with an intention to marry and you know that there is no possibility of marrying the one you are dating, then it is probably better to end it early.

These are the various intentions with which different people prefer to date.